Our communication, how we speak, what we talk about today ... and why some actually like to speak, others a lot and still others are silence in person.
The nice thing about it, the more complex a topic is, the more differentiated is the approach to explain the whole thing simply but beautifully.
First of all I have to disappoint everyone. Up to 90% of all the stuff we croak is not specially created content. Every form of dialogue that we have on a daily basis includes information that we have picked up, seen or heard on radio and TV, so we always just pass everything on somehow. There are enough ways and means.
In between there is a large space in our population from the suffering of the individual citizen. This proportion of people exchanges information by essentially dealing with their own illnesses or with those of others. So both physical = physical and psychological suffering = mind & soul. So the time we spend talking about diseases every day is great. What is wrong with people? There is so much nice and good about the 5 min. could talk at the bus stop or in the supermarket. No, apparently people are caught up in this kind of language to share. You have to find a way through the media to communicate that better. A change in language would be nice.
A third category includes the daily summary of what you did and whether you were hardworking or lazy. Gardening, housework, shopping, watching TV, radio, watching the mail, cooking, then comes the digital area. Internet, news, reading, Facebook, Twitter, Whatsapp, Telegram YouTube, streaming, Netflix and Sky. Go for a walk to clean the litter box.
What does that tell us so far? Everything we have learned from other people on such days or what we have told others ourselves is based on heard or carried out activities. So there are repetitions, a loop, as you call it. With the record, the DJ would say, hm ... something is wrong. The director, script writer would call, we can't even write another script for our people out there. Elsewhere on a sign and in the Deep Achievements of 21st Century Knowledge and Wisdom, "We need to exercise mindfulness and be more attentive as we walk the world, surf and ride. Charity and respect is a fairy tale.
The second part contains topics about our suffering life and that of our neighbors. Don't you also know the neighbors that are in every street, they know everything about everyone in the street. He is feared but also loved. You can no longer take off the wrong dress. My tip, as short and superficial as possible. Of course you are free to unpack one of the Grimm brothers' fairy tale books and present one of them to your neighbor. It's just a typical character on the German stage. It is gossiped and tells what the stuff gives, that the life of the other is the focus. You don't know your own. You can find it in various soaps and series. A generation's circumstance created that.
Life in a frame is only beautiful as long as you don't know anything about it. Unfortunately, such citizens have little to do with Love Peace and Harmony. If something similar seems familiar to you and you can hardly bear it, then moving to the country only seems to be able to inspire your life.
My contribution is only about the communication and the content of it, i.e. the entire cycle of information that we all exchange every day. It is not about judgment or prejudice, it is facts that are taken up in everyday life or read elsewhere. So far, everyone who talked has not created any new and own content. The mind of each individual is constantly exchanging information that was already in circulation. The routine talk show, routine is nice, you don't have to do anything, maybe you don't want that either. You can and may always talk and do the same thing. Good. So is that one of the real reasons why monks live in silence and in peace?
The third part addresses the many young people who have made the leap with technology. Here, however, all age groups have found the connection. The curve then gradually decreases for those over 65 years of age. Still.
From here you can clearly see that the spoken language has lost value. In the sense of one speaks less. Everyone is just typing on the devices. Is speaking less a way back to the roots? Up until a few 100 years ago, we hardly had any vocabulary in our heads. The king sent his messengers to announce news in the marketplaces. The farmer ordered the land the woman took care of the children and a good meal. Not much was said, there was not much new that could have been reported! No newspaper, no radio. It was a quiet time.
With the day when people came closer together and formed communities, that is, the first village, the larger city, etc., people lost consciousness of their own interests and to deal with themselves. So it happened that more and more people stood on the stage and performed things or played something.
This phenomenon has resulted in us losing ourselves.
From that day on, more and more news from outside came into the focus of every individual or family. Our own life, who we are, our environment and our surroundings, as well as life with each other and not against each other was lost. Our own thoughts moved away because only information from outside had space in all of our thinkers and doers. Everything that made up our person and our being in a natural way was exchanged in the shortest possible time. That means all talents and skills can be brought back to life. You just have to remember what life used to be like. As an actor you would have to slip into the role of a farmer in the 15th century.
At the same time, the Today stage is the focal point for our daily entertainment. At least for a large part of our population. TV stage - series - politics stage - sport and art puhhhh ... There are hundreds of stages that you can fall into. It's comfortable, we sit and just have to listen and look. Reading books yourself has already become too tedious and monotonous for some.
After the stage experience came to an end and you were at home, you shared the experience the next day at the latest, so the past information blossomed again. That now seems to have completely disappeared from many. The here and now, what is right now.
In the meantime there has been a change of stage. The stage no longer has to be found and visited. No, we managed to integrate a stage into a smartphone-sized product. This is the stage 2.0 "Our smartphone"
The central point of a lifetime.
A middle way would be, we speak less unimportant and protect the mind and save energy. For this we have to learn to increase the quality of the content we deal with. Industry 4.0 was, digital 2.0 is. So upgrading the language is in progress! Whatever you will call it.
By typing in the cell phones and on the keyboards, we shift the spoken language into mental thinking. It is an evolution. A step that will change our mind sustainably. Some even say that we will activate and train other areas in our brain through generations of thinking. Mental fitness and diversity would benefit us. Considering that, according to official information, only 5-6% of our brain is currently used. Then there is still a lot of room for improvement.
If we look at the Asian continent in this context, there is a big difference to the Western cultures. The Asians look inside themselves and know the essence and their mind that for millennia. The completely different religion shaped the peoples differently. The focus was not on the material level but on the spiritual. Man, health, nature, the family, the community. We are slowly realizing that Asian culture can awaken a lot of good things in us. Yoga, meditation, Asian cuisine, TaiChi. In my opinion, everything was very positive. We, however, are still too concerned with negative content. This is your own fault, why do you have to soak up the many negative contents that rain down on us day after day like a sponge? The same messages are heard 10 times a day on the hour. Does it make sense? Why not switch over and do something different? Why not even organize conversations that you have in everyday life? Yes, why not? Is there a lack of ideas? We tend to always blame others and never look down on ourselves. In this case, blaming is appropriate, a giant industry that produces information every day, media, news and TV content really feeds us with a lot of "irrelevant" data. Apart from the many contents that impart knowledge about the country, the country and culture, as well as the many informative documents. So are creative minds missing in other areas? Are the program directors and editors themselves prisoners of the daily program? If this is the reason why television will die out, more and more viewers are turning away from the classic TV program. We humans evolve, everything around us evolves.
If you look into the world of the citizens, you can quickly see that many know how to present themselves and how valuable an external status is. But only very few know themselves, the inner of each one! The values that in principle make up a person are blurred and have moved away.
It is the information.
One can ask, why is that? Ask yourself why is that so? You never had to learn that from the cradle. School and education systems have so far not been designed to focus on people and themselves. So far, the creative spirit has only been placed at the margins of society and has been able to open up new markets. These creative spirits are responsible today that you can constantly experience something new. A flower that blooms every day. The system in Europe is based on capitalism and economic interests.
There used to be no priorities for anything else. Individuality was written in small letters.
You react and write and do, pass on. This is part of what we do when we hold a smartphone and consume the news. But it's about the content of the information we exchange with our fellow citizens every day. Have you seen or heard of this or that or of this or of it. In this way, a lot of content and dialogues are mirrored that happen on electronic technology.
Here too, the cycle of communication only includes things that you have previously picked up, seen or heard elsewhere. There are also a few photos, short videos and gifs on the left. came. The nice sayings and idioms, as well as the invasion of the animal world in our life. The latter is all new communication. That is pure variety, but how long does it last? A few years have passed.
The free space for our own thoughts has been taken away from us.
The same is also reflected in the world of work. Unless you are editorially on the go working on television or being creative. It's the other way around. The True Artists are constantly creating something new, whether it's a song, writing a book, part of a performance. Sings like a musician, actor, painter, street artist. Anyway, if you want to read all of them, there is a catalog who covers everything under the artist roof.
Everyone can always enjoy new projects, thoughts and new dialogues. Yes, you can smear a lot of honey around the branch. Well, we're not going to do that here. Life as it is lived on earth today consists of at least two systems of an information culture. The new and the old + the third source that existed before the information culture reached us all
The industry is still slumbering in secret, with its marketing departments paving the locks of illusions on our doorstep and on the TV. It's nice work when you're on the creative side of industry. But is stupid for all who fall for it and buy the product. Fortunately, 14 and 30 days' return policy has made the sun rise in the distance for many buyers.
As mentioned at the beginning, it is too complex to formulate simple answers.
What does that actually mean for our health if we always have the same dialogues? Every dialogue is better than none is on one side of the gold coin, but on the other side of the coin,
can not one simply save these dialogues? No and yes, yes and no. No, because it is part of our social life. Yes, one could, at least a rethink could take effect. Yes and no, the middle way.
Is that the real reason why the man doesn't talk to his partner much in the evening? He realized it's always the same! Maybe, but it doesn't have to be. There are enough women who don't tell anything in the evening. The man could also take the initiative and create new dialogues or get them out of the drawer somewhere!
No, it is the calm of the mind that should come in between. No forced boring dialogues. These consume strength, energy and ultimately distract us. The individuality that we believe to carry within us and usually show to the outside world quickly speaks a different language when it comes to exchanging dialogues. You suddenly realize that the characters are not that basic in their basic features. They all behave in the same way when it comes to exchanging ideas and dialogues. Incidentally, this does not apply to artists and creative people out there. The sentence: what's new is worth gold! He really is. If the answer is nothing, then it would be calm and appropriate to remain silent now. How was your day is worth gold, it is simple but important. Most answer here. As always, or else things come to mind that were different that day. As usual, the most important things were told for the time being.
When the children of a family enter the house, it gets really exciting and the parents have to prove once again how good you are at acting. This presupposes that the content of my contribution overlaps the view of the parents in trains.
You never noticed? The way it is! It is ... Then hopefully you had good entertainment so far. That's what it's about, not just repetitions. In certain areas of the world, repetitions are even a daily business. The seller of the bakery: “How many rolls will there be? Answer: Why is that important? So that you don't get a bag that is too big or too small! Happens nationwide 100000 times a day. The waiter who comes to your table: have you already decided? or what can I bring you? The kebab shop owner: kebab with everything? they all say hundreds of times every day. Most say a little bit of everything! Gas station petrol pump: what number? 100 compartments. The conductor: One time the tickets please. 1000fold. It is all an absolutely functional and simple entertainment that has found its way into the service sector. Exceptions are the regular customers. Then it just says cool: "As always" Answer: Right, or very happy! How different should a dialogue be when we enter the shops. Nobody is capable of telepathy and even if it worked on “Star Wars” you have to point out that it was just a Hollywood blockbuster in the science fiction genre. Thanks to George Lucas at this point.
In the beginning, people wanted to comment on the silent fellow citizens. So is the quiet fellow in a round the much smarter? Does he only spare his mind? Does it save energy? Does he know the beginning and end of all dialogues and is therefore always the silent partner? You tell me ! There are things you just have to ask people. This is the only way to find out. Curiosity is an element that is created to create something new.
By the way, if you notice that a dialogue revolves around the same topic for too long, then as an attentive listener you can intervene directly and skillfully steer the conversation in a different direction.
People who speak a lot and like to speak are just the miracle of nature. Communicating is deep within us. Sharing is the magic word here. Everything is shared today. It doesn't matter if everything is always important. The main thing is that you shared. If you look into the animal world you will see exactly why language is important. Everything is in constant dialogue. Be it the night shift in the animal world. Then everything stops there too.